BBC Arabic journalist Janay Boulos falls for Syria photographer Abd Alkader Habak in 2016
Their long-distance romance survives the Assad era, a 2017 viral rescue photo, marriage in London, and a post-war reckoning on TV.

Janay Boulos, a London-based Lebanese journalist working for the BBC Arabic service, began a long-distance relationship in 2016 with Syrian activist and photojournalist Abd Alkader Habak. Their documentary “Birds of War” pairs Habak’s Syria front-line images with Boulos’s BBC life, then follows their escape and marriage, with pro-Palestinian activism and the emotional cost of watching events unfold remotely.
A BBC Arabic correspondent in London, Janay Boulos, fell in love from afar in 2016 with Syrian activist and photojournalist Abd Alkader Habak. That is the core engine of “Birds of War”, a documentary built around a long-distance relationship that unfolds in parallel with war coverage, shifting from London lifts at BBC Broadcasting House to the front lines of Idlib and later Aleppo.
The stakes here are not abstract. During the Assad regime, Habak put his life in danger to supply Boulos with dramatic footage from his home town of Idlib and later Aleppo. In 2017, he then made international headlines after being photographed carrying an injured child to safety. The film intersperses Habak’s gruelling images with Boulos’s smartphone footage, including her thoughtful back-and-forth visits in the lifts at BBC Broadcasting House, plus home-movie material from her childhood in the seaside Lebanese town of Byblos, then stitches in tender texts and voice notes as their relationship grows. In their messages, they sweetly call each other “bird” and “little bird”, a detail that lands precisely because the rest of the story is so heavy.
From an executive briefing standpoint, the documentary is basically a case study in how distance and risk shape communication workflows under extreme constraints. Boulos is working for the BBC’s Arabic service from London while Habak operates on the ground in Syria. That separation means their relationship is also a real-time pipeline of content and context, not just romance. Habak’s need to get footage out while the Assad regime is ongoing implies a constant tension between capturing events and surviving the act of capturing them. Boulos’s use of smartphone footage and her return to familiar rhythms at BBC Broadcasting House highlights another tension: how professional news routines can coexist with personal stakes, especially when the most consequential updates are arriving from a place you cannot physically reach.
The doc then makes its pivot with a grim inevitability. Habak finally gets out of Syria and into Turkey. The couple marry and live in London, then go on pro-Palestinian marches. If you are an executive at a media company, NGO, or platform that touches conflict zones, this matters because it shows how war narratives do not end at evacuation. They migrate. They continue through civic action, public identity, and the ongoing emotional processing of events that are still unfolding.
And then comes one of the most telling late beats. Habak has mixed feelings about having to watch Syria’s final liberation on TV. That line is small, but it functions like a verdict on the limits of mediated visibility. When you have been on the ground, “watching” is never neutral. It is attendance without participation, news consumption without control. Meanwhile, Boulos goes back to visit her parents in Lebanon, where the activities of Israel are stoically deplored, though Hezbollah is not mentioned. Again, the documentary uses personal geography as a political signal, showing how different audiences, communities, and family conversations channel grief and blame in different ways.
Why this should interest leaders beyond the audience of documentary lovers is that it reveals the emotional supply chain behind conflict reporting. Newsrooms, especially international ones, rely on correspondents, fixers, and photojournalists who can operate in dangerous environments. The film shows what that reliance can look like when the “source side” is also a human life, with love, fear, and long-term consequences. In other words, it is not just that war produces content. War also produces relationships, and those relationships are shaped by evacuation paths, relocation, and the slow conversion of survival into normal life.
For executives and boards, the second-order implication is credibility and duty of care. When war reporting becomes personal, the organization’s role expands from storytelling to stewardship: supporting staff safety, managing ethical decisions around sensitive footage, and understanding that the audiences for these narratives are not distant. In this case, Boulos and Habak bring their bond into London marches and into the rhythms of BBC Broadcasting House, so the newsroom is not a sealed bubble. It is a human crossroads. “Birds of War” argues, without preaching, that the heart keeps beating through the ruins. But it also leaves you with the hard question media leaders should ask themselves: after the camera stops, what obligations remain, and who carries them?
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